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Being a Bitch

Posted in personal with tags , , , , , , , , , , on October 13, 2015 by shealm

Time to let me shine through because…


Being a bitch doesn’t mean you have to be cruel or unusually mean. It has nothing to do with being cruel, mean or nasty. Being a bitch means putting yourself first where needed and where appropriate. Being a bitch means learning to say no and not feeling guilty about it.

Being a bitch means putting your foot down and holding to your personal boundaries. Holding firm to the consequences of those boundaries you set for yourself. Being a bitch means not putting up with bad behaviors from others and not being taken advantage of. Being a bitch isn’t being mean, it’s putting yourself first.


30 Days of Photos

Posted in blog, blogging, Daily Dealings, environment, family, friends, home, honor, kids, love, memories, personal, pictures, places, ritual with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on July 22, 2011 by shealm

This idea I took from a family member on her facebook page. She got it from Annie K.

For the next 30 days I’ll be posting one picture that describes that days question\request. Here are the 30 days of questions\requests in advance. If you’d like to do this too, just copy and paste the 30 day challenge and don’t forget credit given where credit due please. Thank you to KC & Annie K for this awesome little meme.

DAY ONE: A photo of yourself and 10 facts
DAY TWO:a photo of yourself at least a year ago
DAY THREE: a photo that makes you happy
DAY FOUR: a photo of a place you’d like to visit
DAY FIVE: a photo that makes you laugh
…DAY SIX: a photo of someone you love
DAY SEVEN: a photo of something you stand for
DAY EIGHT: a photo of someone you miss
DAY NINE: a photo of your hero.
DAY TEN: a photo you like for any reason
DAY ELEVEN: a photo of a night you loved
DAY TWELVE: a phot of when you were happy
DAY THIRTEEN: a photo of one of your favorite movies
DAY FOURTEEN: a photo of your best friend(s)
DAY FIFTEEN: a phot of you and a family member
DAY SIXTEEN: a photo from your childhood
DAY SEVENTEEN: a photo from a trip you’ll never forget
DAY EIGHTEEN: a photo of your town
DAY NINETEEN: a phot of your favorite thing from school
DAY TWENTY: a photo of something you ate today
DAY TWENTY-ONE: a photo of somebody you find attractive
DAY TWENTY: a photo of a good memory
DAY TWENTY-THREE: something you want to do someday
DAY TWENTY-FOUR: a photo of something you hate
DAY TWENTY-FIVE: a photo that inspires you
DAY TWENTY-SIX: a photo of what you want to be when you grow up
DAY TWENTY-SEVEN: a photo of something you’re looking forward to
DAY TWENTY-EIGHT: a photo of something/somebody that made your day
DAY TWENTY-NINE: a photo of your favorite person from history
DAY THIRTY: a photo you find beautiful

A Special Treat

Posted in personal with tags , , , , on April 13, 2010 by shealm

Yeah that is a new piercing! Did that on Friday. It’s healing nicely so far. I’ve meant to get a nose piercing for some time now just never got around to doing it. I prefer the smaller gages and smaller studs. It’s a screw based nose piercing rather than bone type or ball type. It heals fully anywhere from 4 weeks to 10 weeks. Why yes, yes that is me winking at you! *laughs*